Maturity

We all have an idea of what maturity is but many of us would probably have trouble defining it. One way to to define immaturity is to examine it when it's at its strongest, which is in childhood. Childhood immaturity is marked by pushing to get one's own needs met instantly. When they aren't met immediately, emotions go out of control, and the emotions are sometimes out of proportion (for example, screaming because denied chocolate). Childish behaviour is about finding the fastest way to get our own way, no matter the cost. For example, if a child is denied what they want, they may tell their parents that they hate them, or that they aren't their friend. In addition, children will try whatever they can to avoid doing unpleasant tasks, and will be reluctant to share the fun (e.g. a favourite toy) when they're enjoying themselves.

So what does maturity, and immaturity, look like in adults? Part 2 coming shortly...